Law 33 — Thumbscrew: ដឹងអ្វីជំរុញម្នាក់ៗ_ from Team Leadership with The 48 Laws of Power
Find the personal “pressure point” — the core motivator that drives each person (Money, Learning, Honor/Status, Safety/Stability). Use it ethically to align goals, win buy-in, and remove blockers.
🔑 Core Idea — ខ្សែដៃដែលចុចហើយដំណើរការ
English: Every person has a primary driver. When you understand it, you can frame tasks, rewards, and feedback in a way that lands. That’s the “thumbscrew.”
Khmer: មនុស្សម្នាក់ៗមាន “ឧបាទានជំរុញ” ដើម។ ពេលយើងយល់អំពីវា អាចប្ដូររបៀបនិយាយ ការផ្តល់រង្វាន់ និងមតិកែលម្អឲ្យត្រូវចិត្ត។ វានោះហៅថា “thumbscrew.”
Ethics: Use this to align and support people — not to manipulate or humiliate.
🎯 Motivator Matrix — Money | Learning | Honor/Status | Safety
Mark a primary (⭐), secondary (•), and avoider (×) for each teammate. Revisit monthly.
💵 Money (ប្រាក់)
- Prefers clear bonuses, OT rates, performance-linked pay.
- Responds to cost-saving challenges and visible reward ladders.
📚 Learning (សិក្សា)
- Loves training, new tools, mentoring, certifications.
- Responds to stretch tasks with coaching.
🏅 Honor/Status (កិត្តិយស)
- Values public praise, title clarity, flagship tasks.
- Responds to recognition, spotlight roles.
🛡️ Safety/Stability (សុវត្ថិភាព)
- Prefers predictable schedules, written SOPs, steady pay.
- Responds to risk-reduction and clear guardrails.
Cheat Sheet:
- Money → talk in numbers, show bonus path.
- Learning → show skills ladder + training slot.
- Honor → give stage & credit, define title/ownership.
- Safety → give SOP, checklist, stable plan.
🧭 Quick Scorecard (example)
| Teammate | 💵 | 📚 | 🏅 | 🛡️ | Notes |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Ly | ⭐ | • | × | • | Bonus ladder + weekend OT |
| Sok | • | ⭐ | • | × | Assign BIM course + mentor |
| Nita | × | • | ⭐ | • | Lead QA, public recognition |
🗣️ Discovery Scripts — ស្នើសុំឲ្យនិយាយច្បាស់ពីអ្វីជំរុញ
1) One-on-One (5 minutes)
- “When work feels worth it to you, what usually happened?”
- “If I could improve one thing (pay path, training, recognition, safety), which matters most right now?”
- “In 3 months, what would make you proud to tell your family?”
2) Site Daily Huddle (30 seconds each)
- “Share one thing that would make today feel successful for you.”
- “Pick: 💵 📚 🏅 🛡️ — which is today’s priority?”
3) Evidence Probes
- Notice which rewards they mention first (pay vs. praise vs. learning vs. predictability).
- Track which tasks they volunteer for (new skills vs. visible roles vs. steady routines).
🏗️ Apply on a GC Site — អនុវត្តលើតំបន់សំណង់
Task Framing
- Money-driven: “This rebar re-layout saves 6% steel. Hit target → bonus tier unlocked.”
- Learning-driven: “You’ll lead the new laser level SOP; I’ll coach and certify you.”
- Honor-driven: “You present QA findings at Friday demo — full credit on the board.”
- Safety-driven: “Here’s the risk map + checklist; your role keeps everyone safe.”
Reward Design
- 💵 Tiered bonus board (transparent, dated, signed).
- 📚 Paid training hours + badge wall.
- 🏅 “Win of the Week” shout-outs + name on site board.
- 🛡️ Stable roster, predictable OT, clear SOP packets.
✅ Do / ❌ Don’t
Do
- Ask, observe, and log motivators; revisit monthly.
- Customize feedback to the driver (numbers, learning, credit, safety).
- Make reward paths visible and fair.
Don’t
- Coerce or embarrass — that destroys trust.
- Assume money is always #1; many value pride or stability.
- Promise rewards you can’t deliver.
📆 Weekly Routine — SOP/Checklist
- Monday: 10-minute motivator scan (any changes?).
- Daily Huddle: each person picks 💵 📚 🏅 🛡️ for the day.
- Wednesday: 1× 5-min 1:1 (rotate team) → update scorecard.
- Friday: Post wins board (money saved, skills earned, honors, safety streaks).
- Monthly: Refresh bonus tiers / training slots / recognition plan.
🚩 Red Flags — អ្វីដែលគួរប្រុងប្រយ័ត្ន
- Mixed signals: they say “learning” but only light up for OT → test with small learning reward vs small cash bonus.
- Silent disengagement: no pick in huddle → schedule private 1:1, start with safety & stability questions.
- Public pressure backfires: honor-driven praise is good; safety-driven may hate spotlight.
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